Theoretically, you can break up with a girl beautifully, but in practice it is difficult to do. In my opinion, the term "beautiful" is not suitable for such a painful action as a breakup. Whenever you want ending a relationship, even if you no longer have feelings of love, will be painful and unpleasant for both of you. But I dare say, the more correctly you behave when parting, the faster the heat of passion will pass. At the same time, the suffering of both will be easier.
So, I think that the word "beautiful" should be replaced with "worthy". And how "worthy" to break up with a girl, this is already a question with an answer.
To begin with, it is worth remembering one not tricky rule. Be a "real man"! By entering into a relationship, you have become responsible for the other person. Be able to carry this burden of responsibilities to the very end. When you make your final decision to break up, you will have to take full responsibility for this decision on yourself. That's what they call behaving with dignity.
How to do it? Let's take a closer look.
1. Develop an action plan.
The more detailed you work it out, the easier it will be.
It is necessary to clearly formulate your thoughts. So that the girl does not have any questions left after you express them. At the same time, you should not blame anyone. This will definitely cause aggression.
Think about where you will break up with your girlfriend. The location is important! You should have plenty of time to discuss everything. There can be tears and screams. Public domain this should not become public. After all, this only concerns the two of you.
2. Be calm.
When you announce the breakup of a relationship, do not pay attention to all the words that you hear. Anger is the first thing a girl will feel. After all, she I don't think I was prepared for this turn of events. Therefore, everything she says will be said in a fit of anger. In such a situation, it's best to just ignore what she said. Your job is to stay cool.
3. Stay adamant.
Decided to break up – break up. leave opportunities to resume the relationship to either yourself or her. There should be no suspense or omissions between you. Do not give in to her persuasions or threats, be inflexible.
If you use the above tips, your breakup with a girl will not turn into a scandal. Time will pass, and she will stop being angry and resentful of you. After all, you behaved with dignity ("beautifully").
Erich Maria Remarque, in his novel The Arc de Triomphe, wrote: "The best thing to do in a breakup is to leave." No matter how hard it is, don't stop halfway. Remember – without finishing the old relationship, it will not start new ones!
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HOW TO UNDERSTAND THAT LOVE HAS PASSED AND IT'S TIME TO LEAVE